Somethings never change. Bachelor parties are a must for your guy's last night out. A girl once told me, "When a guy puts a ring on my finger he is not allowed to have a bachelor party". How sad, imprisoned before your time. With that being said, lets not forget some of the very important ground rules for off premise parties when the strippers will be coming to your location for a bachelor party.
The “best” strippers are the first to be booked; so make sure you plan in advance. It’s a good idea to book at least 2 weeks in advance. From April thru November is bachelor party season and the best girls will always get booked first, so remember book early. If you call the day of the bachelor party you generally are going to get the bottom of the barrel. If that is your situation you are probably better off going to a club to celebrate the bachelor party. Strippers will perform anywhere a private party can be accommodated as well as in homes and hotel rooms. Depending on which type of show you book, generally a stripper will stay anywhere from 30 minutes to 1 hour. However, if the boys are tipping and polite, the girls will usually stay longer. Entertainers usually arrive with a security person who collects the balance in advance. Collect the balance due from the guys before the girls arrive.
When searching for strippers, be careful of too good to be true advertising. If it’s too good to be true, it probably is. Make sure to view a website or myspace page. If a company does not have one, then you know right away there is a problem.
If the girl is hiding her face behind a hat, be careful. A lot of agencies will try and fool you into believing these girls are great, but don’t believe it. A lot of these women are old, and way past their prime.
Find out what ‘type” of girl the Groom likes and book her for the main event.
What details is the Best Man responsible for? Have a conversation with the bachelor, absolutely beforehand, and find out what he does and does not want to go down at the party. This is his last night out as a bachelor so a little embarrassment is certainly imperative, but overall you want him to have a good time. NO CAMERAS - NO EVIDENCE - I think this one is self explanatory!
Make a list of guests and send out emails requesting RSVP’s by a specific date (usually 2-4 weeks prior to the event). Providing directions to the location is especially helpful for out-of-town guests. Have your guests view the stripper’s photos online. If the girls are hot, guys will usually free themselves to come to the bachelor party.
Make sure all of the guests arrive at least 1 hour before the stripper. Get fired up! Have a clean room ready for the strippers to change in. They usually prefer a bathroom that is off limits to guys.
When the strippers show up make sure the bachelor isn’t dirty and is somewhat sober, i.e. conscious. Vomiting is a turn off for the strippers, and smelling like a donkey is just plain gross to begin with.
Stripper rules? Strippers have rules believe it or not. Even though they are entertaining for your pleasure, it’s extremely important that you treat the girls with respect. Nothing ruins a party faster then some wasted jerk acting like a total fool. Control your boys! Strippers prohibit the use of cameras or video recording devices during the show. They will also usually come with security guards to keep things from getting too rowdy. Make sure everybody complies with the rules!!! Don’t be a jerk, and be polite.
It is recommended a minimum one girl for every 10 guests. You can obviously book as many strippers as your budget will allow.
Make sure people have cash to tip! It’s tactful and professional. It is a bachelor party you know?
Tipping your stripper is essential. The more tips handed out, the better the show. Don’t let the guys be thrifty. Now is the time to waste as many singles, fives and tens as possible! Make sure you stop at the bank and pick up singles, this way you can change them up for the guys.
